"I figured out how the victim game works, so I can catch that annoying bug in your energy field that bites you, blow it away and let your Higher Self replace it with whatever is for your highest good."
"I went to hell and back. It was unbearably hot down there. I got to use all of myself to figure the way out. Luckily, my PhD helped me discover, learn, test and evaluate many personal development modalities. With every step I took, my life was easier. I became fascinated with people who can shift energy in a second. I wanted to know everything they do. So, I learned it. On top of that, I figured out patterns in a victim-drama game. How fear-based victim scarcity consciousness works and why breaking free isn't easy. Now I help others break free from that cloudy, painful, stressful, helpless, nothing works for me state. I am like a hand to peaceful, easy, funny life."
“I cleared all the energy of betrayals that were in my family lineage. Tena’s Clearings Are So Powerful and SPOT ON!!!” ~ M.E
“Tena's Work Is Extremely Powerful. I Felt The Shifts Immediately, She Healed My Relationship With My Inner Child!” ~ Eileen O, USA
“I have no triggers in relations with my mother and colleagues anymore. I Was Shocked At How Quick & Easy The Changes Happened”. ~ Iva, Croatia
“The issue we worked on started as a 10, and by the end of our session, I was down to a ZERO!” ~ N.K., USA
“Anger outbursts toward my son are completely gone!” ~ Mirela, Bulgaria
Patterns in the Victim Game
Spiritual Accelerator
Compassion Key Master Practitioner
Compassion Key Circle Leader
Compassion Key Level 1&2 Practitioner
Access Bars Practitioner
Core Integral Specialist
PhD in Communication
ECDL Trainer
Teacher's Academy - Primary School, Music & Croatian Language Teacher
Music High School
Gymnasium

Before I began my intensive journey into the deepest corners of darkness, I mostly lived happily and in love with life. But things shifted when I met my husband. That relationship showed me the heaven and the darkest circle of hell I hadn’t known before.
And then, it happened.
A single sentence my father once told me — when I was just five years old in Libya — echoed back like a lifeline. Back then, I had imagined a balloon, and it appeared. He had said: “You only have to wish for it; it comes true.”
With a PhD in communication and a deep, intuitive core, I learned how to find clarity in the middle of emotional storms. I explored countless personal development techniques, protocols, and modalities. Eventually, I identified the three most effective ones. Alongside that, I dove into scientific frameworks to better understand the inner and outer landscapes of human experience.
What I discovered is this: humanity is undergoing a shift — from a paradigm of fear, victimhood, scarcity, and separation toward love, sovereignty, abundance, unity, and harmony. I also came to understand that the physical world mirrors our inner landscape — our values, beliefs, thoughts, and emotions.
Today, I live in Croatia with my husband and our two children. I continue to explore how business and education can evolve in alignment with 5D harmony. I also design transformational programs and lead workshops — in both English and Croatian — sharing what I’ve learned on my journey.
I integrate my knowledge and experience into services that nurture growth — personal, professional, and collective.
As a teacher, author, consultant, and energy practitioner, I bring together consciousness, modern technology, and science to offer practical tools for transformation.
My work supports individuals, families, teams, and organizations through key life transitions — always with the goal of restoring harmony and clarity.
Through workshops, lectures, and one-on-one or group sessions, I help people resolve communication challenges, strengthen relationships, and build more resilient systems based on truth, empathy, and sovereignty.
My approach is grounded in what I call the harmonic worldview — which means I view transformation as the dynamic relationship between the body, mind, emotions, and environment.

My work builds on years of academic research, a PhD in communication, and deep engagement with the teachings of Robert Edward Grant, Ken Wilber, Dale Pond and Stephen Karpman.
Robert Edward Grant connects mathematics, geometry, music, and frequency into a harmonic map of reality. His work helps me decode personal and collective patterns.
Ken Wilber offers a comprehensive model of consciousness that sees truth through personal, cultural, scientific, and spiritual dimensions — allowing me to meet clients wherever they are in their awareness, without judgment.
Dale Pond builds on the work of Reich and Keely to explore how vibrations and frequency affect human biology and emotional states. His research supports my work with resonance-based alignment and emotional release.
These scientific and philosophical lenses help me design clear, grounded, and transformational programs that work with the real structures of consciousness.
Stephen Karpman is author of the Drama Triangle, a psychological and social model of human interaction. It maps three roles that people often unconsciously take on in conflict or emotionally charged dynamics: victim, villain and saviour.


The way I communicate is a mix of modern methods and my own experience in recognising patterns associated with victim consciousness. I use insights from John Overdurf, Edward Mannix, and my own.
John Overdurf is a respected coach and trainer in the field of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), hypnosis, and consciousness work. He’s known for bridging traditional NLP techniques with modern neuroscience and mindfulness.
Edward Mannix, creator of The Compassion Key. His technique uses self-directed compassion to heal the wounded child - shadow aspect that is the genesis of the victim game.
Over the years, I’ve developed my own simple model that views communication as a bridge between a fear-based mindset rooted in victimhood and scarcity, and a love-based mindset rooted in sovereignty and abundance.
This model is grounded in what I call the victim game map. It identifies the unconscious patterns that keep people stuck — including beliefs, emotional reactions, roles, and behaviours shaped by guilt, shame, control, or self-sacrifice. It also maps the opposites of these patterns — clarity, responsibility, personal power, and relational coherence.
By recognising these internal rules and shifting them consciously, individuals can begin to step out of loops that reinforce limitation and into a way of living that reflects freedom, dignity, and connection — both in how they speak to others and in how they relate to themselves.